A woman asked me this question while on a date:
Her: “If you asked for sex and I said No, would you get mad?”
Me: “No, has that happened to you?”
Her: “Yes, many times.”
Me: “Those guys were stupid. If you ask a question with a yes/no answer, then you need to be prepared for and accept either one.”
Reading this article indicates to me that some parts of the world are still much worse. It looks like you are lucky to have a decent husband where you live.