Abusive marriages can work both ways. I’ll not go into details.

I got out of insanity #1 when the kids were 17 and 18 and there were no kids for insanity #2. At least the second one was explainable by a childhood incident.

I met my wife on Match.com at age 54 and it has turned out just like the ending to a romance novel. See my article Stereotypes and Prejudices Everywhere for the story about romance novels.

She never thought that she would get married again.

My ad said: “I am not looking for a maid, cook, laundress, dishwasher or sex object. I’m looking for a partner…”. Mine worked perfectly. Hopefully, yours will too.

The most important thing is to start. It will take time and you to be ready. Never give up.

William “Bill” Myers, Analyzes all, Programmer, retired. If you learn anything new, find enjoyment, have a new thought, then I’m successful. Photo: 1st article

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