Adults should be able to eat raisins with whatever they want without outsiders trying to control them.
For example, yams are great without raisins, brown sugar, syrup, or marshmallows. I don’t see where skin color, race, gender, or any other random categorization has anything to do with it.
By the way, I don’t put raisins in any of those — just oatmeal, and that doesn’t work if I throw them in at the end. I put them in the water at the start.
When the grandkid went home after a visit and returned to his daycare center, he wanted to know where the raisins were. They were missing from his oatmeal there.