Being a man, I have to rely on my imagination and your description. The man doesn’t even have to be around for the birth or the baby. My article tightens up some of the fuzziness in the abortion ruling in the US and puts part of the burden on the man, at least a little.
==> A Comprehensive Solution on Abortion vs the Current One-sided Scheme
==> Women risk all for sex, men risk nothing. Equalize the risks, then both sides, fleeing the hysteria & faulty logic, will find a solution.