I always thought that one the highest act of courage was for a woman to go out on a date with a new person. I met my wife on Match.com and we were a perfect match. I still have the 23 emails it took to figure that out. For 17 years, my life has been like the ending in a romance novel and I heard her tell her friend on the phone “My whole life has changed!”. The important thing is not to give up or accept anything less.