I learned this dating game online from a poet in California when I was single (I was in Texas).
You could ask any question you wanted. If the other person chose to answer, you had to answer the same question.
One woman, closer to home, said that she would think up a question, and then “Oh No! I don’t want to answer that question.”
It was interesting.
My hardest question: “What are Your Values — Write them down.” It took me two weeks.