In some circumstances, I suppose that you are correct that verbal, emotional, or physical abuse is crueler.

An affair is just another form of emotional abuse, or it may a reaction to abuse.

If one wants to follow their own values, though, they should file for divorce first.

Twenty years later, I received an apology from my ex for her behavior like all of the above. I stayed married the last few years to protect the kids.

William “Bill” Myers, Analyzes all, Programmer, retired. If you learn anything new, find enjoyment, have a new thought, then I’m successful. Photo: 1st article

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