It’s not always in the form of a question.

My wife said “Intelligence is important” on Match.com 19 years ago.

Another woman asked this question by email: “What are your values?”

It took me 2 weeks to answer. Here they are:

https://medium.com/@billmyers_85482/what-are-your-values-write-them-down-aec00089be72?source=friends_link&sk=224051192176470bf63483ca60f4fe09