I've never walked up to a single woman at a bar. However, when I was single, I went to a hotel with a band and dance floor in Indianapolis. On the night before the 500, I had 2 guys stop me:

Them: "We've been watching you."

Me: "I'm not that kind."

Them: "No, you've danced with nearly every woman here. How do you do it?"

Me: "The women next to the wall watching the men are here to be picked up. The ones close to the dance floor watching the dancers are here to dance. I ask them."

Moral: Men just need to pay attention. Most don't.

William “Bill” Myers, Analyzes all, Programmer, retired. If you learn anything new, find enjoyment, have a new thought, then I’m successful. Photo: 1st article

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