Nobody wants to do anything logical — that would work.
You are correct. It is nothing but a power struggle between hypocrite extremists on both sides.
I expected irate comments on the second part of my proposal in my article A New Solution on Abortion.
Part 1 suggested a minor change to Roe-v-Wade. Many comments and mostly not about the proposal.
Part 2 impacted men in a major way over the next 20 years. No comments about the impact, some attacking the method.
Great article pointing out the hypocrisies.