There are actually two issues in this article: the invitation and the breasts.
- A woman asked me this question while on a date:
Her: “If you asked for sex and I said No, would you get mad?”
Me: “No, has that happened to you?”
Her: “Yes, many times.”
Me: “Those guys were stupid. If you ask a question with a yes/no answer, then you need to be prepared for and accept either one.”
Your husband was correct not to ask you on the trip because he was not prepared for a yes response, no matter what you said in advance.
- As for your breasts, that is a hang-up to work through, if you think that it is important. I was in a similar situation, though not as comprehensive or inhibited. I spent two hours one day trying to come up with a word to describe how I felt about it. The stereotypes would be angry or frustrated. The term that fit was “unwanted.”
Good luck in the future