What a wonderful article! Perfection does not exist anywhere, in anything, especially love. There is not a unique “The One,” but many in the “Good Fit” category. Like you pointed out, people need to keep in mind that a relationship involves every minute together.
You have to know what is important to you, your values, and small things you can ignore. Your attitudes need to fit.
I don’t mind romanticizing my relationship as long as others realize it isn’t everything. Certain aspects and events may be romantic in appearance.
We are an excellent match via Match.com, but not perfect.