You are correct about objectification.

My ad on Match.com listed the things that I was NOT looking for: cook, maid, sex object, etc. One reply did not know the meaning of the term “object”.

I was looking for a partner. And found the perfect one for me on match.com where I met my wife of 18 years.

Just so you know that there is some hope, see the results in my article:

William “Bill” Myers, Analyzes all, Programmer, retired. If you learn anything new, find enjoyment, have a new thought, then I’m successful. Photo: 1st article

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