Your position was like walking down a dark alley in a big city in the middle of Saturday night. You may make it to the end ok.
Unfortunately, unlike the alley, it looked and sounded safe.
A woman once asked me this question, “If you asked for sex and I said No, would you get mad?”
I said “No, has that happened to you?” Answer, “Yes, many times.”
I said that if someone asked a yes-no question like that, he should be prepared for either answer and not get upset.
There are too many bullies and thugs, with no values, walking around in nice clothes.